Move to another place
Have you experienced the difficulties that people face when they move to a
different country or culture?
I had to struggle a lot when I came to America, due to the cultural
divergence between my mother county and America. I had to adjust to certain
systems such as
a new school, new type of sports when I never heard of before, and types of
holidays I never experienced in my country.
I had never seen so many students at
the same time before. When I enter the school building. I saw different
types of people in the hallway. I categorized them into different groups
such as nerds, freaks, and famous. Nerds were friendly to me, as they always
are. Freaks and famous were up to their own usual things such as trying to
look cool and try not to do anything that will embarrass them. Of course,
there
were few misfits who don't fall to any of the categories. Being new in the
school, I was feeling different from others as if I am from Mars. I finally
managed to find my class. The class was different from my previous
experience. It was big and crowded. Since it was the first day, we were
supposed to introduce ourselves. It was my turn and I was feeling awkward
because I had different name and accent from others. Everybody was amazed
after hearing my name, but no one ridicule me. The first day of my school
was a memorable experience.
I have always been a big fan of
soccer. In fact I was a soccer player from my school back in my home
country. Since I move to America I had changed my
sport taste to basketball because they did not had any soccer team in my new
school. At first I did not even knew what basketball really is. I was
totally ignorant
of the rules and basic clue of the basketball. Most importantly I did not
even knew how to bounce the ball. I was trying to learn how to play
basketball with my friends and teacher from Physical Education class.
Eventually, I became the part of basketball and started playing with my
team-mates. Today, I spend most
of my time whether playing basketball with friends in park or watching NBA.
When I was back in my country, we used to celebrate holidays like Dashain,
Tihar and many others during a year. We also used to celebrate Christmas and
New Year
holidays.
After I moved to America, I had
three-day holidays in the end of November. I had no clue what the holidays
were for. I was in a grocery where I saw majority of people buying turkey.
After that scene I was so curious that I went to see a friend of mine. I was
amazed to see his relatives, family and friends at his house. I asked him
what's the occasion? He briefly explained to me that holiday was fro
Thanksgiving Day.
It is related to American History,
so all the American celebrate this day. I also got the answer why everyone
was buying turkey at the grocery store. The most part
of the Thanks giving Day is turkey. He asked me to join the party at his
house and I couldn't refuse after seeing all that. They had barbequed turkey
as well a variety of wine for the guest. Attending the party at my friend's
house was an educating experience to know why and how people celebrate
Thanksgiving Day.
Obviously, when a person moves to
another country or culture from their own they will have to face different
types of new experience. In a new culture, we have to adjust in certain
areas because of the difference between town countries. A different school
from my own was a memorable experience. Change of taste into new type of
sport and knowledge about the holiday of different culture was educationally
helpful for me to adjust myself in new land.
BIJAY GAUTAM (SPYBOY)
HOUSTON TEXAS
USA